By the time, a child steps into youth-hood his exposure to the world gets expanded a lot and he/she starts considering himself/herself as grown up to decide on his/her own in matters of relationships. He/she is no more an adolescent curious to know everything and fearful of touching the unknown. Thus, he/she has a stint of self-confidence and self-respect. He/she does not look for guidance but is willing to provide it to the youngsters. At this age, he/she is eager to mix up with all age groups - youngsters to provide guidance and elders to be their accompaniment.
Youthness is a critical period in one's life for two reasons - for career advancements and for loving relationships. Fears and shyness of adolescent relationships are gone at this age and they get mentally prepared for loving relationships with opposite gender of their age-group. Simultaneously, some youths become aware of their career advancement which prevents them from going in for unbridled relationships to save time and other resources. This divides the youths in two broad categories - career-oriented and the free-birds. It depends on the local social environment what percentage of youth will go a category. Talking about India, mostly youths from government officials' families are career-oriented and the rest are so much frustrated in the social environment that they don't hope to achieve anything even if they try. These youths of second category lack guidance also and ultimately add to the useless crowd of India.
Because of the fact what percentage makes a useless crowd of youths, the relationship scenario also get affected. The career-oriented youths have fewer but mostly dedicated friends while the rest have a lot many friends but of drifting type and seekers of promoting their own interests through hit and trial friendships.
Maximum number of sex-based male-female relationships develop in this age group because of their upcoming desires for sex.
Sexual relationships of youths most often demolish career advancement prospects but sometimes become challenges or inspirations for career building. In both cases, the youths get isolated from the elders who forgetting their own days, preach morality and restrains in sexual relationships. This is often termed as 'generation gap' but is not truly so. The gap is due to the fact that the youths need sexual relationships while the elders want hem to have restrains.
Youthness is a critical period in one's life for two reasons - for career advancements and for loving relationships. Fears and shyness of adolescent relationships are gone at this age and they get mentally prepared for loving relationships with opposite gender of their age-group. Simultaneously, some youths become aware of their career advancement which prevents them from going in for unbridled relationships to save time and other resources. This divides the youths in two broad categories - career-oriented and the free-birds. It depends on the local social environment what percentage of youth will go a category. Talking about India, mostly youths from government officials' families are career-oriented and the rest are so much frustrated in the social environment that they don't hope to achieve anything even if they try. These youths of second category lack guidance also and ultimately add to the useless crowd of India.
Because of the fact what percentage makes a useless crowd of youths, the relationship scenario also get affected. The career-oriented youths have fewer but mostly dedicated friends while the rest have a lot many friends but of drifting type and seekers of promoting their own interests through hit and trial friendships.
Maximum number of sex-based male-female relationships develop in this age group because of their upcoming desires for sex.
Sexual relationships of youths most often demolish career advancement prospects but sometimes become challenges or inspirations for career building. In both cases, the youths get isolated from the elders who forgetting their own days, preach morality and restrains in sexual relationships. This is often termed as 'generation gap' but is not truly so. The gap is due to the fact that the youths need sexual relationships while the elders want hem to have restrains.
1 comments:
dear Sir, i you have been doing a lot of gr8 work with your post so i think you are the rt person to advice the girls of india who dont seem to understand that their real beauty and dignity lies in their character. i just want you to go to this link and explain this fact to these gals in your gr8 words.
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