As a general rule of nature, male is always sex-hungry wile a female want more and more of love. Here, it is noteworthy that sex is a way of loving but it is not all of love. This takes us to conclude that what a male can provide is only a part of what a female needs. however, the additional thing what a male may provide to a female is protection of masculinity. Another logic taking to the same conclusion is that a female needs sex-play only when in mood of it while a male is ever-ready in all species of life.
When in trouble, a males is in raze and anger but a female feels sadness and depression. Thus, the male response to an adversity is active while that of the females is passive, indicating that the two perceive things not only differently but in diametrically opposite ways.
Although cultural differences of males and females also matter, the dominant role played in the above perceptional differences of males and females is by the biological differences of the two. The males produce principally testosterone hormone in their testes while the females produce estrogen in their ovaries for acquiring their typical characteristics. Apart from these, males produce small amount of estrogen and females produce some testosterone providing them respectively the counter-characteristics. Thus testosterone seems to be a hormone of activation while estrogen is producer of passivity.
Since, the above perceptional differences are psychological, brain is not the only source of perceptions. This study suggests that testosterone in testes and estrogen in ovaries also make psychological impacts on personality. This proves my differentiation of mind and brain functions in human bodies.
The third difference is that of male female personalities - softness of females and masculinity of males, the sources of which are the above hormones in the two types of bodies. Consequently, the male bodies are more adaptive to varying environment than the female bodies. In-spite of this, the females are more tolerant to adversities of life than males.
Culturally, men are more careful of female infidelity for fear of bringing up somebody else's kids whereas women are protective of emotional attachments because the biggest danger for them is being left alone with the burden of single parenthood.
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A great book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus “by John Gray offering many suggestions for improving men-women relationships in couples by understanding the communication style and emotional needs of the opposite gender.
Namaste …Marta
Good Post, excellent briefing about the perceptional Difference of Husband and Wife.
So true Ram..peace
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